Elderly Kildare couple get court order against threatening son
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AN ELDERLY Kildare couple with serious medical issues whose adult son has allegedly threatened them with a firearm in a conflict over the transfer of family lands, were successful in gaining a protection order each against him behind closed doors at Naas District Court last week (9 April).
“Make it discreet, but have a quiet word, but explain to him his position in simple English,” said Judge Desmond Zaidan to the s court garda who will inform the son about the significance of his parents’ orders.
“And maybe you can give them the heads up about your arrival so they can make themselves scarce,” prudently suggested the elderly couple’s solicitor Daniel Walsh from Newbridge firm Coughlan and Walsh Partners.
Both the applicants were assisted into court by their solicitor and were allowed to take a seat in the empty practitioner’s rows.
Mr Walsh outlined his client’s situation, telling the judge: “they seek protection from their son who is still residing with them”.
“They constantly fear his abusive behaviour and threats,” he said.
“He is seeking land to be handed over. They have already given him some, but they don’t know what he’s done with that money."
Mr Walsh told how there were other adult siblings who have moved out, but that the respondent son: “has threatened siblings and his parents with a firearm”.
“Your son is over 18, and without your permission, has no right to stay in your property. That is criminal trespass,” said the judge gently.
“He has some alcohol and mental health issues, and so they are reluctant to ask him to leave,” said Mr Walsh, holding up his hands.
Mr Walsh then went on to explain how both his clients had significant medical issues.
“I wish you both well, and I’m sorry you’re going through this with your son. He should be helping both of you, not giving you grief,” sympathised the judge.
“Still, it’s fantastic to see you guys going strong together into your elder years,” he smiled, before reverting to the formal.
“Is what both of you told me true and accurate?” he asked.
“Yes,” stated both parents together.
“I’ll grant you a protection order each,” said the judge, before he advised the court garda.
“If he breaks the order and he’s brought before me, he won’t like me,” said the judge to chuckles from the relieved parents.
He then set a full hearing on the orders to be fixed for 13 July, at which the respondent son must attend.
